Jul 26, 2008

A content homecoming

I think that "content" is the most accurately descriptive characteristic of Sadie.  She crys very, very little, and is easily quited by a feeding or a swaddle.  Otherwise, she is just happy to sleep, rest on momma's chest, rock in a chair, or be left alone in her bassonette. 

Today, the contented one came home from the hospital with Mom.  Thank goodness.  It is so nice to have the whole family back together under the same roof.  It's even better that this roof is our own home.  We are all moved back in.  I went to Target today to pick up Kimberly's meds and decided that the basonet with storage shelf below set up just worked too nicely at the hospital.  So, now we have one of those too.  It's actually quite handy, and very practicle.  I reccommend them.  Sadie seems content in hers...

Jul 25, 2008

A daddy and his girls

Daddy has been the helper and picture taker for the last couple days. Today, Kimberly felt good enough to be up and around a little. Enough so, as to take a few pictures of Daddy with his new little girl.



Day 3 update, particularly for the out-of-towners (That includes you mom!)

Last night, Kimberly had her first night alone with Sadie. Daddy had to take Soph home and she deserved some time with mommy or daddy anyway. Things were a little sketchy during the evening, as Kimberly's milk still hasn't come in yet (one of the downsides of a c-section) but Sadie was good and ready for it. As such, she did a lot of sucking of air (and therefore got a pretty bad stomach ache) before everyone realized what was happening. The nurses brought in a special doo-dad that gives Sadie formula WHILE she is at the breast so she doesn't get confused, and still stimulates Kimberly's milk to come in. It works great. Today, Sadie is back to normal, feeding for a half hour, then sleeping for 2. She is back to the content and quiet little one that we have known her as. Here are a couple of pictures of her content Day 3:




The trooper

God bless Sophia.  For being a generally inflexible child, she has been a real trooper the last couple days.  She spent Wed with Grandma and Auntie Julie and her cousing Lil.  She spent the night with Lil, and the next day.  Daddy picked her up on Thurs afternoon at about 6pm, and we spent the evening together playing legos and reading books.  Grandma came back this morning to spend time with Soph during the day so daddy could go back to the hospital.  This afternoon, Soph is going to hang out with Kimberly's friend Naomi. 

She has been exceptionally behaved, and just an all around great girl in this time where we feared she might be jealous.  It might still be coming, but we'll relish these first couple days, at least.  Here she was, all gussied up when she came back yesterday to see her little sister at the hospital again:

Jul 24, 2008

Day Two

Mom and baby are doing great.  Sadie already has a completely different personality than Sophia.  So far, the most displeasure she has expressed is 2 or 3 squeeky cries when she got her shot.  She grunts a little when she is hungry, and loves resting on Momma's chest.  She just loves contact period.  Everybody got at least 2 or so hours of sleep last night.  The light sleep had nothing to do with Sadie.  She slept most of the night.  Please God, let that be a sign of things to come!  All is well on Day Two...

Jul 23, 2008

First Encounters

Every second time parent's question must be, "What will my first child think of this new one?" Will the oldest child view their new sibling as competition or a little sibling to protect and love? If Sophia's first reaction to Sadie is any indication of what she thinks of this whole experiment, we should be in great shape!

Sadie Joy Bass - born July 23, 8:03a.m.

Sadie Joy Bass, our second lovely little girl, joined the world this morning at 8:03a.m. She weighed in at 8lb. 2oz. and is 19 1/4" long. She is beautiful! And, I don't say that often about new babies. Everything went great! Sadie started crying as soon as they pulled her out of the womb, was sucking her thumb inside 25 minutes old, and had her first feeding without difficulty at about 45 minutes old. She's an old pro apparently...

Jul 16, 2008

Final Days

So, my wonderfully, technologically, savvy husband has had this blog up and running for quite some time - and sadly, I have yet to publish any posts. Just for the record, it certainly has not been for lack of desire! Unfortunately, being pregnant this time around has been way more tiring than I remember our first pregnancy... which may have a little something to do with having a very passionate, full-of-life, full-of-energy, pre-sch0oler that I am trying to keep up with! ;-)

So in these final days before our second child arrives, we have done much: a lot of "nesting" projects including what basically was a reorganization of the entire house, re-establishing a nursery, getting Sophia situated in her new room, but most importantly - spending some final family time as just the three of us, Jimmy, Sophia and I.

Here are some photos of some of our recent "final family days of just the three of us". I have a feeling any posts that will come after this, will include photos of our new family of four!

Love to all, and be on the lookout for updates!




Jul 6, 2008

Grocery shopping badass

It's not really what i ever though might be a source of pride, but I've become at least relatively adept at packing a small family's worth of groceries into a weekly budget of $85 for groceries and $10 for household needs. It's become extremely more difficult as of late as everything has increased in price. Here is a sample list:

Item                          old price                  new price
String Cheese                          $0.27 per                        $.050 per
Market Pantry Crystal Lite       $1.77 pack of 3              $2.99 pack of 3

Today, while shopping, I realized something that made me so excited and so disgusted at the same time.  It was as if i had figured out a secret equation that unlocked some hidden time warp or something.  On at least 3 occassions, i found a case of underhanded packaging and pricing techniques that undoubtedly rob 90% of the grocery shopping public out of more of their hard earned money.  It turns out that there are tons of savings throughout the store just hiding right under your nose!!!

Let me give you a couple of examples.  First off, i think it is a generally accepted understanding that the more you buy of something, the better price you get.  People buy "value packs" because, while there is more food (or whatever) in them than they currently need, the price is better in the long run.  A value pack of 2 boxes of cereal might be $4.50, while 1 single box of cereal is $3.25.  They only came for 1 box of cereal, but when they buy 2, that $3.25 cereal box goes down in price to $2.25 each.  This illustrates well enough the point I am making.  Now, to the example that illustrates that this is not always true.

Today I grabbed the cheapest 1lb. block of cheddar cheese I could find, Market Pantry (Kimberly and I have become partial to Target's generic brand because it actually tastes the same or better in most cases and is more reasonably priced... usually).  It was $5.94, which incidentally is up in price by well over a dollar.  Anyway, i moved on to other things, and swung back by the cheese case a little later only to notice the price of an 8oz. block of cheese was only $2.34.  I looked again, a little taken aback.  This goes completely against the theory that bigger is cheaper in the long run.  In this case, 2 small blocks of cheese would be cheaper than 1 big block... by a lot!

1lb. block of medium cheddar cheese:     $5.94
(2) 8oz. blk medium cheddar cheese:      $4.68
SAVINGS:                                            $1.26               HOLY COW!

Example number 2 is something I realized a couple months ago.  Toilet paper.  This is one of the most caniving examples of packaging confusion.  Kimberly and I are bargain people these days.  As long as our toilet paper is 2 ply and softer than sand paper, we're cool with it.  So, we've been getting a lot of Target brand TP.  I actually prefer it to Charmin.  But, here is the sneakiness of the whole game.  Take the 2 types of TP i was trying to decide between today:

  1. Target Ultra Premium TP, 2-ply, 12 rolls       $5.45
  2. Angel Soft Toilet Paper, 2-ply, 12 rolls          $5.75
I was going to grab the Target TP (that's 30 cents more for other things!) until i looked at the packaging:

  1. Target Ultra Premium TP, 12 rolls @ 300 sq. ft/roll
  2. Angel Soft Toilet Paper, 12 rolls @ 502 sq. ft/roll
THAT'S NEARLY TWICE THE TOILET PAPER FOR ABOUT THE SAME PRICE!!

Incidentally, here is what that works out to:

Target TP       = 15 cents/ 100 sq. ft
Angel Soft TP = 9 cents / 100 sq. ft

BIG DIFFERENCE!

I found a couple of other deals, and examples of tricky packaging as well.  It's important to note that you are never really comparing apples to apples even when you are looking at two different brands of the same thing.  Everyone, i mean EVERYONE, is trying to make their product look better.  Pick of 2 different bags of kids chicken nuggets, one brand name and one generic. They'll be about the same price, but one will have a 1/4 pound less chicken in the bag.  You may be surprised which one is cheaper.  The same goes with cereal.  It may look like your cheerios are the same price as they've always been. They may even look cheaper!!!  But, if you look close you'll see that the amount of product in the box has shrunk substantially.  What used to 24oz., may now only be 14oz, or 16oz.


The moral of the story is that if you take your time, figure out who has what cheaper, and make ample time to spend at all the stores you need to, you can save a lot of money.  I'm not just talking about 1 or 2 dollars here.  By my count, i saved over $12 at the store today, just by paying attention.  That's 3 gallons of the gas you can't afford any longer either. 

Jul 5, 2008

Sophia's (and Maximus') 1st car wash



Sophia participated in her first car wash today. It was the first car wash Kimberly and I had done in 3 years too. We got rolling and decided to wash all the vehicles. Sophia was a great helper!

A more finished garage





Well, for the most part the garage shelving and organizing is done. All there is left to do is go through and downsize what is on the shelves. Most everything is up off the floor. The last piece of the puzzle was building the brackets to hang up all the drywall, plywood, and other long scraps of wood from all the past and future building projects. Here is the about as "shelved" as this little garage is going to get. For those of you who have seen it before all the work, you'll be able recognize that it has come a long way...

Jul 3, 2008

Deep Thoughts: on Patriotism


July 3rd, 2008


It's the day before the 4th of July, Independence Day. The radio is on in the background talking about what the definition of patriotism is. Of course, there are many different ideas, coming from many different arenas in this country, as to what the definition of patriotism is. This is an election year, and the accusations about who is patriotic and who is not abound. We are at war, and any disagreement with it's motive for being fought is often met with a critical look or an accusation of being unpatriotic.

Patriotism in general, at least for my generation, has been a hot topic since at least 9/11. Listening to the radio today to a few of the explanations of what people think being patriotic means really got me thinking. Someone suggested that supporting American companies overseas was patriotic.

I'm sitting here looking at the skyline of downtown St. Paul, Minnesota, and I can think of at least a few American corporations who I'm not too proud of. I can see U.S. Bank. They have the lease on my wife's Jeep. They've not been bad to us personally, but they won't let us out of a lease either. I tried to ask them about refinancing the lease to a purchase the other day and they want more for the vehicle now that it has been paid on for 3 years then when we first leased it. They, like most banks, are in the business to make tons of money. It's not about helping me, but about helping themselves to my money.

It's interesting that in most downtown areas, banks have the largest buildings. From my vantage point here I can see 5 tall buildings that mark St. Paul: U.S. Bank, 1st National Bank, Wells Fargo (bank), a condo building, and Securian (Insurance... don't get me started). Is that a big surprise? Yet, somehow they feel they have to charge you to keep your money in their pocket. I can think of plenty of other American companies that don't have buildings in St. Paul that I'm not the least bit fond of. Exxon Mobile, Shell Oil, Halliburton, Northwest Airlines, and American Airlines, just to name a few. I could go on and list numerous companies that have defrauded hardworking Americans, and people of other countries, out of their money for years. Some of them still exist while others, the MCI's and Enrons of the world, collapsed under the weight of their own fragile house of cards. No, there is definitely little patriotism to be found in blindly supporting the operations of your hometown American corporations.

I think the fundamental difference people have in their understanding of patriotism is a simple one. Some mark patriotism as unwavering support of the actions of their country or countrymen, their government or their military. If the government took us to war in Iraq, the only patriotic thing to do is support the war. To these people, questioning the motivation or moral standing for the war is tantamount to stabbing "the troops" in the back.

Others, including myself, mark patriotism as an unwavering support of the ideals that this country was founded on. Our ideals could generally be accepted as freedom, peace, and equality for all men, though much falls in between those, and others would add more. Therefore, it is the with these ideals in mind that we consider patriotism, largely because these ideals are communal, applying to all men. They don't blindly give approval or praise for something done in the name of America, except where it's approach, implementation, and result are all for, with, and in the name of those ideals: Freedom, Peace, and Equality. We are American patriots not because we approve of everything our country does simply because we love this country. We love this country because of the ideals it was founded on, and we approve of what this country does where it falls within the constraints of those original ideals.

Patriots of the American democratic experience don't condone the business practices of Halliburton in Iraq, or Enron in Texas simply because they are American companies. We don't like American Airlines just because it's name is American when they are charging customers for everything and cutting the salaries of their workers all while paying out record bonuses to their CEO's. We don't support the war because we are already there and have no choice but to "support the troops." To us, supporting the troops and supporting the war are not mutually exclusive.

On the note of this being an election year, we don't care whether the candidates wear flag pins on the lapels of their expensive suits, or whether they always put their hand over their heart when saying the pledge of allegiance. We consider patriotism from our representatives in government as carrying, upholding, and applying the ideals of the founding documents of this country. All their actions, all of their votes in Congress, all of their bill writing, policy making, and decisions should be marked by the ideals of American democracy, including freedom, peace, and equality, and not just for Americans, but for the world at large.

We don't need to look too deep into the documents that govern this country or into the speeches of some of it's greatest presidents to see support for this understanding of patriotism. This Independence Day we will recall the the original document that bears the holiday's name: The Declaration of Independence, which says the following:


We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.


That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed,


That whenever any Form of Government becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government.


The most patriotic of all documents in this country dictates the ideals for which we stand. It even went so far as to say that if the government ceases to represent these ideals, it is the right of it's citizens to abolish it and replace it with a government that does hold to those ideals. Abraham Lincoln echoed these sentiments.


From his 1st Inaugural Address:


This country, with its institutions, belongs to the people who inhabit it. Whenever they shall grow weary of the existing Government, they can exercise their constitutional right of amending it or their revolutionary right to dismember or overthrow it.


...and in January of 1848:


"Any people anywhere, being inclined and having the power, have the right to rise up, and shake off the existing government, and form a new one that suits them better. This is a most sacred right-a right, which we hope and believe, is to liberate the world … . Nor is this right confined to cases in which the whole people of an existing government may choose to exercise it. Any portion of such people that can, may revolutionize, and make their own, of so much territory as they inhabit."


I don't present this, by any means, to encourage anarchy as a patriotic ideal, though some may question whether our current system of representation in government is leading us to that end. That's another story. Instead, I only seek to illustrate that patriotism, by it's earliest implications in this country has always involved taking pride in what we do that is right, good, and moral. It was never meant to be a hiding place for our most questionable actions to steal away from honest consideration of their value or moral adherence.

To say this is to say that those who question the actions of our country's government, or it's businesses, or it's individual citizens, are at least as patriotic (if not more so) as those who love America for whatever it does. They hold true to the ideals that America was founded on. Their patriotism binds them to hold their government and their country accountable to the ideals for which they stand. The United States is a great country. But we are not great because we are the United States. We are great when we uphold the ideals upon which God allowed us to be formed. Where we fail to uphold those ideals, we fail to live up to the patriotic standards of the Declaration of Independence. Where we fail the the Declaration of Independence, we fail to be patriotic at all.

This Independence Day, I will be thankful to live in the United States because of the ideals upon which is was founded. I will be thankful to live in the United States because of the freedoms I am afforded. And, I will be thankful to live in the United States because it is my "sacred right" to patriotically question the actions of my country, its government, and it's businesses. I am thankful, not proud, to live in a country where that is possible. I feel pretty patriotic about that...